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You are an excellent man. You treat girls with the highest respect, you are polite, reliable and an all around good guy. You've almost certainly asked yourself on a lot more than one occasion, why women love bad guys? How do guys like Tommy Lee get hot women, while you struggle to keep any lady? How does the scruffy bad boy biker living next door get lots of girls and have little trouble keeping them?

It's simple, actually. Women love bad guys, since they're exciting. Bad guys are unpredictable, out of the norm and different. The very elements that make them bad guys are what draw women to them. Is not that ironic? No wonder people say love makes no sense.

The good guys on the other hand, might be trustworthy, but they also are usually boring. They get up each morning at the same time, go to work, come back home at the same time, eat dinner, watch TV and go to sleep. They offer a safe life for their family, are perfect for raising a family, but women get bored and begin to search for something a little more exciting.

But, there are some methods you can adopt to prevent this from occurring. If your woman likes bad boys, you have to learn to be both a good guy and bad. Sounds unfeasible, right? It's not. The most successfully married men have learned this lesson a long time ago.

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Even if you're comfortably ensconced in a relationship, you need to continue to excite your partner. It might seem irrelevant to date your partner at this point, but it could be the difference between a long happy marriage and a messy separation.

Excite her, you can give her the same things she is looking for in a bad boy, but combined with the traits of a good boy. Be risky. Take her out parachuting, mountain climbing, bar hopping and show her your wild side now and again. Make love to her on a public beach or trail. Get crazy on the dance floor or do anything goofy to make her laugh in public. Show her that you have a bad boy side!

You might be wrapped in a good boy package, but everyone has a bad boy in them, even if it's buried down deep in many people. Now that you know why women love bad guys, you are armed able to fight back.